Q: “What if I try something and realize I don’t actually like it? I feel like I’ll be disappointing my partner.”
Luna: Then you’ll have learned something real about yourself, and that’s a genuinely good outcome — not a failure. “Not for me” is useful information, not a letdown, and any partner worth exploring with will see it that way too.
Agree beforehand that trying something isn’t a promise to love it. “We’re just finding out” takes the pressure off both of you completely, and honestly makes people more willing to try things in the first place.